Me (28M) and my fiancé (27F) are in an open relationship. Almost been into it for almost a year. Things have been picking up around this time today to where we are now starting to be romantic with others. We always preach about transparency and not blindsiding each other after the fact. Which I agree with. We agreed that we would like each other know if things were heating up, despite if that’s wise or not that’s beyond the point at this point. Yesterday during a conversation(thru text) we were chatting about what we had plans on doing this week. I told her Friday I plan on going out with someone I’ve been seeing for some time. She suggested I take things further and see how far I can actually take it. I agreed and told her that my plans were to go out, grab a bite and see how far I can get. I went the whole way to say the very least. She asked me how did it go and I told her the truth and told her I took it all the way. Sadly, she was not happy with the fact I didn’t tell her things were headed in that direction. But I told her what i literally went there to do before I even went. I am having a hard time understanding what or where I went wrong in this equation.

This is sort of a long one guys. Burner account btw.
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I (19M) meet a girl (19F) at a college party before our Spring Break, we hit it off immediately, on thing led to another, I took her for a drive then we had sex at her place. Out of the hookups I've had with girls, this girl was different (I know all the fuckboys say this but this is frl), I noticed that it was clear she also caught feelings that night. She said she hasn't slept with anyone in a long time, I'd like to believe her. Definitely the best vibes from a hookup I've had, it felt like we've been dating for a while. Actually had a lot in common, hobbies too. That night we agreed on meeting again after break. We talked over break a bit.
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After break (2 weeks later), I set up plans to link again on Thursday. Im a car guy, she is also into cars, I was going to take her on a drive through one of the roads here in Socal with a view (like Mullholland or ACH for example) She told me she said she was down, but had things going on but she'd lmk. I basically took it as a no, from the past times I've been told "ill let you know" and they dont. I was right, nothing, so I shook it off as she just lost interest. She texts me Friday morning apologizing for leaving me on ghost saying a lot has happened, and tells me she is pregnant. (She found out before Thursday, but didn't tell me until after she went to the doctors on Friday to be sure). She is 100% sure its mine. It was a shock to me, I wore a condom, but now looking back it most likely did break. This has never happened to me, so I switched up and kept it more professional when texting her. She is going back on Monday to do one last test before scheduling an abortion.
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I'm obviously not that close with her since at the moment I'm just a ONS. But I feel like I should check up on her because I know it must be very hard on her. I feel like I should be at the abortion, no matter how awkward it may be. I feel like it is just a douche move for me not to show, ONS or not. We are splitting the cost too. Im not sure if I should be there for the final test on Monday too, I plan on offering her a ride. In terms of us, I don't know if it is right to offer the late night drive again or just to go out after this is all done, or to just close the book all together.
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Tl;dr: I got a girl pregnant, she ended up flaking on a link because of this. Should I show up to the abortion? (I want to) Should I check up on her? (I think I should). Should I reinitiate a link or date after this is all over or close the book?
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Thanks for reading allat if you did.

I’m a 17yr old girl with about 35 college credits. My main job experience is (1) 3 summers as an intern at a biotech company where I did soldering, water quality sampling and testing, basic inventory management, cleaning, etc (2) >2 years as a fast food worker (3) a few months as an intern for an atmospheric physicist doing spatial analyst/data processing stuff. I’m considering a career in geology or water management (deciding whether to major in Geosciences or Environmental Engineering). I’d really like to explore a career at a wastewater plant; I’ve been interested in municipal water management since I first learned about it around the age of 10. I applied to an internship position at a municipal wastewater treatment plant a couple months ago, but I didn’t really expect to get offered a position since I’m a pretty under qualified(they’re hoping for sophomore or higher Civil/Environmental/Industrial Engineering students, I’m not yet a college student). To my surprise though, I’ve been offered a position from May 28th- August 15th as an Operations and Engineering Intern with a pay rate of $19/hr and a 40 hwk schedule (6:30am-2:30pm Monday-Friday). I’m super excited, and it seems like this would be an amazing opportunity! I could see if I’d really like to pursue wastewater management as a career, and I assume having this experience on my resume would be super useful if I do decide to go into this field. However, the big issue with the internship is that it’s located in a city about 1hr away. I was hoping to take classes at a local university to see if I’d like to go there next year, but obviously couldn’t do that if I was working full time in a different city. I also have medical issues that I’m recovering from, and all of my healthcare providers are in my current city. I would also have to rent an apartment for 3 months, and I’d have to quit my current job($16.5/hr fast food job) or work on the weekends. Overall, I’m just scared that I’m not medically or mentally ready to take on all of the commitments required by this internship.
I think taking the internship is undeniably a good career move. However, how rare is this kind of opportunity? How likely am I to be able to find something similar next summer? What might I be missing that I haven’t accounted for by taking/not taking this internship?
TLDR: How much would I be screwing myself if I don’t take an entry level internship in Wastewater Operations/Engineering this summer?

Hi everyone one,
I thought the hiring process for my current role was a pain.
-recruiter
-hiring manager
-business intelligence director
-assistant manager (direct boss)

• HR

Early March I applied for another role, and oh man, the interview process has been loooonger
-recruiter
-SR Programmer
-Hiring manager
-Hiring manager’s boss
-director, systems analyst (hasn’t happened scheduled for Friday)

• director, data science (hasn’t happened scheduled for that following Monday in person)

-two person panel interview (hasn’t happened scheduled immediately after the the data science interview)
That’s a total of 7 interviews with 8 different people. Now I’m question if it’s even worth it. Why does this happen? Is it because they’re trying to determine which candidate is a right fit?

It’s been 98 degrees since Thursday not even getting below 89 at night. Just sweltering humidity. It’s Sunday evening around 6 or so. Your car has been parked in the cheapie airport parking (not covered) since late Friday morning when you left on the absolute worst weekend getaway ever. Turbulence there was horrible to begin. Your plane was delayed before you could get to your connecting flight stuck for an extra hour and a half. Get to your destination at midnight. That’s just the beginning, it gets worse and worse. You’re even late returning. Worst weekend. Open your car door, and the stench of the broken wine bottle on your backseat that’s been cooking since friday. THAT, THAT smell. The nastiest spoilt wine smell you could ever smell. THAT is what Strane’s Grape Gorilla Glue smells like. That is THE nastiest smelling stuff that I’ve maybe ever smelled. Damn. It took 3 days for it to calm down enough that I could even begin to think of what it was.
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I purchased the Maschine 2 Software for a used Maschine Mk3 I bought Friday. When I try to install the software It fails to install, it says “installation failed”. I have tried to run Native Access as an administrator, Ren install native access, and reset my Installation locations but nothing has worked yet. Does anyone have any suggestions? I really want to use my Maschine but haven’t been able to yet.

The odds of three players in the same deal receiving AA, KK, and KK seems to be 4/52 * 3/51 * 4/50 * 3/49 * 2/48 * 1/47, i.e., 1 in 51 million hands. Live poker runs at 25 hands/hour. Thus, mathematically, one should expect AA/KK/KK to happen once every 2.04M hours. HCL Friday sessions are 8 hours long. That's once every 255,000 sessions. Given that HCL Friday sessions only happen 52 times a year, it'll be another 4,903 years until this scenario recurs in this particular high stakes game that runs on Fridays.
Poker was invented less than 200 years ago, to put this in context.
Conveniently, all three players were deepstacked. The new protagonist of the HCL soap opera (Mariano) got the AA. The unrelatable hedge fund kid (Double M) and the new guy (Yang) got the KK's. And the protagonist now has enough ammo to keep playing for a while. The show gets its thumbnail and drives conversation in poker rooms around the country. Super convenient.
HCL = WWE?

As the title says, this is something me and my wife really struggle with. I work 40 hours a week while she is a full time mom with a 3 month old baby at home. Usually every Sunday we do a full house deep clean, but in doing this start off strong but struggle to stay motivated and don’t get it all done, a example of this being the unopened floor cleaning solution under our sink we have intended to use with mopping the kitchen floors for the last 3 weeks now. Well start the week off with a clean house but by Friday the sink is full of dishes, not many clean clothes left, floors need a good vacuum, we’re definitely not bad enough to leave messes uncleared for months at a time(seen houses with literally trenches carved through the clutter and trash to get around). Really looking to make a change.

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As a registered dietitian and counselor, I have a unique outlook and approach to eating disorders and weight issues. Many weight problems are caused by some sort of trauma, whether it is a form of abuse, bullying, or problems in the home. Children don't have the tools to help analyze trauma/abuse/parental issues. They have to find ways to make sense of it and continue living life. Unfortunately, the coping skills a child may use to survive, such as eating for comfort or stealing food, may work for them at the time, but work against them as an adult. I work through these issues so that you are eating for survival instead of eating for emotional needs.
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I guess this applies to any game, but I’m a new modder and have never downloaded a new release before. Assuming the game is not leaked before release day, will I be able to find and play the rom on release day with ease? I really want to play the game the Friday it comes out, but if its too much of a hassle or if it takes a few days I might just purchase a copy. Thanks.

I (F32) have been seeing a guy (M35) for about a month now. I feel we really like each other. He says he feels a connection with me and when we didn't see each other for a week (because I got sick) he said he missed talking and kissing me. And we have been intimate with each other. He even gave me the code to the call box at his apartment complex to use to call him so he can let me in (I don't know how big of a deal that is, but I thought it was a pretty big deal).
We last saw each other Wednesday night. We watched a movie at his place and you can use your imagination as to the activities that took place afterwards. As he is walking me to his car, I hint at that I want to schedule the next time we see each other. He picks up on that hint and starts talking about seeing the sequel to the movie we just watched on the weekend. He said even if we didn't go see the movie, we could still get together and do something. He sounded like he started to plan when we would see it, but I opened my mouth to say that I had an obligation from 1-2 pm on Saturday, but that was it. He then says, "Oh, well, we can play it by ear if you want." I didn't want to, but it was late (and a school night) and cold so I accepted and got in my car.
For the rest of the week we text each other 2-3 times a day. Fast forward to Friday. He texts around 11:30 Friday night that he hung out with his friend and asked me how the rest of my day was in response to my last text to him. No mention of seeing the movie or getting together. I wait to respond to him Saturday morning when I woke up, around 9:30 (and I ask what he thinks about catching the movie sequel this weekend). I have not received anything back yet. It is hard to plan something, even by ear, if you don't hear back from the other person.
I know Saturday is his chore and errand day. However, last weekend we were to get sushi together (and we did). I had texted him at 12:30 AM when I got in from being out Friday night. When I didn't hear from him Saturday morning, I texted him in the afternoon asking if the plans I made for sushi worked for him since it was my treat. He didn't respond till Sunday morning. And I know he saw my text on Saturday, because he said he went to bed Saturday looking forward to getting sushi.
And two Saturdays ago, he texted me throughout the day.
My question is, should I call to try and set up seeing the movie/getting together later this weekend, or just send a follow up text? If it's a true match, it shouldn't matter, right?
Tl/dr: When I (32F) last saw the guy (M38) that I have been seeing for about a month on Wednesday, he talked about getting together this weekend, but would play it by ear when I mentioned I had an afternoon obligation on Saturday. I have not heard from him since 11:30 PM Friday night despite responding to him around 9:30 AM Saturday morning. Do I call him to set up getting together later this weekend or just send a follow-up text and see if I hear from him Sunday morning like last week? If it's a true match, it shouldn't matter, right?

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10 u/Useless_Archives 48050 20 u/Hangzhounike 26045 30 u/BaldTuesdays 16407 40 u/CodyGriffin 11394 50 u/multipurposeflame 8304

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1 	u/Gasenos	64447	11	u/Doses_of_Happiness	10636	21	u/Useless_Archives	5709	31	u/rosesan	4473	41	u/superstonks	3513
2	u/rad302	25634	12	u/Large-Wheel-4181	10627	22	u/Sonorational	5502	32	u/KushPatil	4284	42	u/c0mp0op3r	3495
3	u/Short_Shots	23187	13	u/Mugiwara_AF	9464	23	u/Umber0010	5498	33	u/blaZikeN_257	4252	43	u/KaleBennett	3402
4	u/chaosgiantmemes	21487	14	u/Allonsy_11	9141	24	u/Zombiepixlz-gamr	5425	34	u/matuhx	4170	44	u/Thecloud420	3353
5	u/sponge_hitler	17674	15	u/Ralle1998	8085	25	u/Hangzhounike	5211	35	u/_Open_Your_Mind_	4148	45	u/PosterQ	3328
6	u/pineapple_overlord	17501	16	u/Mr60Gold	7761	26	u/acidcomplex_	4752	36	u/CaesarWalinguini	3968	46	u/CyberDalek6401	3314
7	u/Good_Apartment_9992	16614	17	u/BlitzTaco	7525	27	u/JetZflare25	4713	37	u/MyNameSpaghette	3863	47	u/BaldTuesdays	3285
8	u/iamscythed	14686	18	u/MemeCalendar	7448	28	u/GinjaNinjaYT	4706	38	u/JD_Justice	3857	48	u/KlerWatchCo	3249
9	u/3D_Guernsey	11334	19	u/TheMamoru	6351	29	u/CritzD	4700	39	u/NovaAge	3852	49	u/dhtikna	3002
10	u/m_preddy	11009	20	u/mistermuesli	5901	30	u/FoxTrotPlays	4619	40	u/Hammerman305	3548	50	u/666thSuprisedPikachu	2828

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2	u/sponge_hitler	136080	12	u/mistermuesli	32763	22	u/CritzD	18728	32	u/ncroney12	10918	42	u/Plastic_Pinocchio	8777
3	u/Short_Shots	90399	13	u/Ralle1998	32124	23	u/Umber0010	17651	33	u/KushPatil	10880	43	u/2D_DoS	8172
4	u/Good_Apartment_9992	69340	14	u/razhagever	30124	24	u/SubsubatomicGuy	16407	34	u/occultmoon	10440	44	u/GnelforGnoblin	7325
5	u/chaosgiantmemes	64412	15	u/BlitzTaco	29854	25	u/rosesan	14592	35	u/Olipop999	10430	45	u/multipurposeflame	6698
6	u/rad302	61330	16	u/Mugiwara_AF	28673	26	u/PosterQ	13271	36	u/Large-Wheel-4181	10146	46	u/aemanthefox	6396
7	u/iamscythed	49322	17	u/pineapple_overlord	24345	27	u/NovaAge	13248	37	u/Kermit_Ur_Life	9578	47	u/NervigerWutbuerger	6370
8	u/m_preddy	43491	18	u/TheMamoru	22585	28	u/BaldTuesdays	13122	38	u/Regis_Casillas	9430	48	u/CyberDalek6401	5897
9	u/Useless_Archives	42341	19	u/Hangzhounike	20834	29	u/blaZikeN_257	12932	39	u/976chip	9382	49	u/myownwildthoughts	5846
10	u/3D_Guernsey	40527	20	u/MyNameSpaghette	20802	30	u/dhtikna	11945	40	u/acidcomplex_	9250	50	u/Zombiepixlz-gamr	5417

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Templates	Examples
Yesterday
1: When someone says they’re the most trust institution but you have doubts	1: He’d be stylin
Author: u/Large-Wheel-4181	Author: u/Large-Wheel-4181
Score: 73	Score: 133
2: President James Dale saying two different things should be together	2: I have doubts
Author: u/Large-Wheel-4181	Author: u/Large-Wheel-4181
Score: 53	Score: 47
3: Some guy admits he would wear Dracula’s Cape	3: I got one myself as well
Author: u/Large-Wheel-4181	Author: u/Large-Wheel-4181
Score: 33	Score: 30
This week
1: Cursed tape is playing with only one not being too worried when the others are	1: KilleSurvivor Negotiations
Author: u/Large-Wheel-4181	Author: u/Large-Wheel-4181
Score: 84	Score: 306
2: Reinfield asks his master if he’s ok	2: Run Chris, Run
Author: u/Large-Wheel-4181	Author: u/Large-Wheel-4181
Score: 81	Score: 217
3: Guy stands up to someone only for it be a slasher villain	3: Come back here and lose with honor!
Author: u/Large-Wheel-4181	Author: u/Large-Wheel-4181
Score: 75	Score: 211
This month
1: Cursed tape is playing with only one not being too worried when the others are	1: Honestly, these jokes are starting to get annoying
Author: u/Large-Wheel-4181	Author: u/redditboy123451
Score: 84	Score: 2874
2: Reinfield asks his master if he’s ok	2: Imagine if they simplified her just being a serial killing elitist
Author: u/Large-Wheel-4181	Author: u/Large-Wheel-4181
Score: 81	Score: 811
3: Himeno passed out after drinking too much while Makima continues on	3: I’ll get it right…next time.
Author: u/Large-Wheel-4181	Author: u/Large-Wheel-4181
Score: 80	Score: 596
This Year
1: Johnny Depp walking out with his lawyers	1: Honestly, these jokes are starting to get annoying
Author: u/chaosgiantmemes	Author: u/redditboy123451
Score: 239	Score: 2874
2: Frankenstein template	2: She's never going to let you down... or let you go....
Author: u/amirlopez	Author: u/_The_Entire_Circus_
Score: 233	Score: 1856
3: "Pretty Flowers" template	3: Facepalm or genius?
Author: u/amirlopez	Author: u/Large-Wheel-4181
Score: 210	Score: 1474
All Time
1: New Sonic movie template	1: Heavily inspired by Hannah Hillam
Author: u/Spudtastic-Spastic	Author: u/Short_Shots
Score: 1616	Score: 112930
2: Credit to u/mallow_dip	2: The gif that started it all
Author: u/Yemris	Author: u/Whymanwhy12
Score: 1614	Score: 99404
3: An Upgrade	3: I once called Hulk Shrek.
Author: u/0Markus0	Author: u/Shiteingann
Score: 1533	Score: 97200

Former Democratic New York Governor Andrew Cuomo criticized Manhattan District Attorney Alvin Bragg over his focus on potentially prosecuting former President Donald Trump and suggested the move is politically motivated. “I don’t understand why Bragg is putting such emphasis on this case,” the former governor told WABC Radio on Friday night. “A person breaks the … Continue reading Andrew Cuomo blasts Manhattan DA Bragg’s Trump probe: ‘I think it’s all politics’

Today I feel so alone in parenthood. I will start by saying my husband is a good partner and father, but his work schedule sucks. He is a nurse and an assistant manager in his department. He works weekend nights, Friday-Sunday 7pm-7am which is actually more like 6:45-8:15, and then usually has several hours of continuing education or paperwork to do throughout the week. This means he makes a lot more money and I’m able to stay home with my daughter, which is what I always wanted. Except I still work two nights a week serving tables/bartending. And have been in school since last summer. And because my husband is asleep during the day almost every day, 90% of household tasks fall on me. I do all the cleaning, cooking, and laundry. And I don’t feel like I have a partner in parenting the vast majority of the time. And I wish we had more time together as a family.
My daughter is 19 months old and needs to get out of the house more. I try to take her to story time at the library once a week and to the park when the weather permits. I’ve been trying to find things going on in our city for us to do on the weekends. There was a beer fest going on today that advertised some family friendly things like a petting zoo. Great! She loves animals. Live music! She loves music and dancing. So we went, just the two of us. There were lots of kids there but every other parent had family and friends. Lots of families with both parents or groups of moms. I only have one “mom friend” but we aren’t super close, and she had to work today.
I made the stupid decision not to bring the stroller because I knew my daughter would want to walk and that I would have to get her out to pet animals anyway. It went well for about 15 minutes. There were SO many people there, I barely felt comfortable letting her walk at all because she’s so small and people weren’t paying enough attention. But she didn’t want to be carried and started getting upset.
We came home and she bit my nipple harder than ever while nursing for what feels like the 10th time today. I tried to vent to my husband and he said, “But her teeth are probably bothering her.” Of course they are, but don’t I deserve any sympathy too? It’s just been a rough day that didn’t go as planned and I don’t feel like anyone in my life understands. And I regret that I spent the 40 minutes I got to see my husband today complaining.

When Julian started randomly stuttering on fridays episode idk why but I lost it. That shit was so random